We operate just like a private party that is dedicated to each new couple we meet. All of our members and other regular guests will make a special effort to help you enjoy each party as if it were in your honour.

For first time visitors, if you wish only to observe, your privacy will be respected. We are happy for you to join us and observe our unique lifestyle.

The most successful couples are the ones who have discussed their rules between themselves first. Your rules will change the more comfortable you become at the club. We are unlike "House Parties" where small numbers can make you feel uneasy and unlike night clubs or strip clubs where the crowds and noise can stop any successful conversation. Our club operates a bit like both. 

There is always opportunity for conversation making it very easy to communicate with others. Don't forget, everyone is there for the same thing, well almost. However, if your expectations are not met on your first visit, fear not. Most of us were very nervous our first time and like everything else, good things do come to those that wait. So much does happen at the club you may only get time to see everything and not to play. You may get to play straight away.

NOTE: If you are offensive or act in a way that is detrimental to everyone else's enjoyment, you will be removed!

• No Means No! Please respect your hosts and other guests.
• Don't touch before asking or being asked.
• Be polite and courteous at all times.  

Be patient, talk to as many people as you can and you will find what you are looking for, in the mean time have an X-tremely good time, here, at The X-Club!  

There is an old perception that swingers are all the same, that is; "wife swappers" and "gang-bangers". That idea is now a bit outdated. Although swapping partners is one aspect of swinging there are many other reasons why people call themselves "swingers". Couples can be looking for straight swap, or single bisexual women or men to play with. Singles can look for casual and bisexual affairs, and so much more.